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    Wednesday, August 30, 2006

    Suzanne breaks into a chorus of that Leslie Gore hit: It's My Party!

    It's my party because it's my birthday!

    Well, okay, yesterday, August 29th, was officially my birthday. But I believe we should celebrate our birthdays whenever we choose, wherever we choose, AND we should get to choose how old we are. I've always followed a sage piece of advice someone once gave me: "The key to aging well is to pick one and stick with it."

    I'm at that crucial point at the end of a book and still have a few climatic chapters to edit this week, so I've decided to take a rain check for my birthday. At some later date, maybe in September or October, I will declare it my birthday "week." (Trust me, I will milk this for all its worth.)

    This means for a whole week --- sometimes longer --- I get to choose what movies we go to and what restaurants we eat at.

    It means hanging out at the Lancome counter for an entire morning and buying makeup I don't need.

    It definitely means spending a leisurely afternoon with Michael Angelo, my hairstylist, while he does all those lovely things to my golden locks that make me feel like a million bucks.

    It means curling up on the sofa with a great cup of tea and reading the first chapter of every book on my mile-high TBR pile.

    It means ordering two servings of escargot at my favorite restaurant and calling it my birthday lunch. (I may even have a glass of wine with it . . . in the middle of the day!)

    It means chatting on the phone with all of my friends for as long as we want . . . guilt-free since I have one of those unlimited long distance plans.

    It means taking a moment or two or three to stop and appreciate all the good things life has to offer. (We get so caught up in the rush and in the sad, the tragic, the endless crises.)

    And it means knocking another year off my age, of course.

    So, inquiring minds want to know: How do you feel about birthdays? How do you celebrate your birthday? Have you ever taken a rain check? What is the best birthday you've ever celebrated?

    Happy Birthday to all of us!
    Suzanne

    23 Comments:

    Blogger Kris said...

    Happy Birthday!!

    5:51 AM  
    Anonymous Ranurgis said...

    Again, Happy Birthday, for whatever week you plan to celebrate it in.

    Oh, I'm quite comfortable with my birthdays. They come and they go and usually there's not much fuss surrounding them. It's an attitude that, in a way, I developed from my mother who didn't mind growing older--actually Europeans are much more phlegmatic about birthdays than North Americans.

    But she had to have greetings from everyone she wrote birthday greetings to. If she didn't, she'd become paranoid. "Oh what did I do to hurt this person that they're forgetting poor little me?" She'd agonize for weeks until the delinquent wrote and then she was happy.

    I've eliminated that problem. I've hardly written a birthday or Christmas card in years. So I'm not upset at all if someone "forgets" mine.

    I don't usually do much that day either to celebrate. One of my siblings or a friend might take me out for dinner. As for the rest of the special stuff, that is normal anyway.

    Yep, sometimes I take a raincheck from someone to celebrate it at a more convenient time.

    When my sister and brother-in-law had their lodge to run every summer, my sister would officially celebrate her birthday in November rather than on July 8. The staff and everybody would make a little party for her but she certainly could take no time off. This year was the first in 20 years that she was able to take off on her birthday and she and her husband went to Ottawa for some time off.

    Have lots of fun when you decide to really celebrate.

    7:46 AM  
    Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Since I turned 25 (I´ll be 39 this year) birthdays are not a big fuss for me. Sometimes I celebrate them and sometimes I dont. Sometimes I invite friends for a little evening celebration, sometimes I just go to the movies. And sometimes I simply forget all about them.
    Birthdays in and off themselves are not important. How you live your life IS.

    8:13 AM  
    Blogger DFender said...

    Happy, Happy again Ms. Suzanne ;)

    I turned 40 on 7/29 so I've reflected mightily on birthdays this year. I've decided that although my children are getting older, I'm now in a holding pattern. I loved being 39. 40? Not so much. I think it's just the "number" thing. A yucky sorta milestone I guess. It does, however, beat the alternative hands down! I've decided, too, that I'm going to remain 40. I look good, I feel good and I'm a very fortunate kinda person.

    That being said, celebrating quietly with my kids and husband are the ticket for me. I do, naturally, milk the entire week with requests beginning with... "since it's my birthday (this week, soon, this quarter, tomorrow, etc.) I think we should..."

    I just LOVE that. I love that my friends and family remember and make the effort to make me feel special.

    I love receiving homemade gifts from the kids no matter their ages, now 16 and 19. I keep 'em all.

    Hey, as far as rainchecks go... I remind ALL that I turn(ed) 40 this year. I'm celebrating all year. So there ;P

    Many happy returns, Suzanne

    Deb

    uybqus: Unlike youth, beauty quotes usually suffice.

    9:13 AM  
    Blogger elizabeth said...

    How do I celebrate birthdays? Reluctantly. :P

    On the other hand, it's better than the alternative. :-)

    11:52 AM  
    Blogger Jayne Ann Krentz said...

    I'm with Elizabeth: I sure don't look forward to birthdays but they definitely beat the alternative!

    --Jayne

    12:06 PM  
    Anonymous Eve Silver said...

    Happy birthday, Suzanne!

    Birthdays are such strange things. I love making a big deal about everyone else's... hubby, kids, friends. But when it comes to my own, I like the low-keyed, quietly downplayed celebration best.

    3:07 PM  
    Blogger Stella said...

    Celebration depends on what else is going on. I like presents. Crass, obvious, whatever, but honest. Opening a package is one of the best things I can think of:) And, most of all, I like to have my family around me.

    Happy Birthday again, Suzanne,

    Stella

    4:23 PM  
    Blogger ashefrog said...

    I found the birthdays after the 30,40 etc... like 31, 41 were harder. For some reason it meant I was really in my 30s, 40s. Just a number thing I am sure.

    Celebrating when the time allows works for me more than the actual day. I love Suzanne's ideas for celebrating and I am with Stella on presents - love'em, can't get enough no matter what they are. Just love pretty packages and opening them.

    My fav, though, is going away for the weekend.

    5:27 PM  
    Blogger Karibear said...

    Birthdays mostly aren't a big deal for me. It's so close to Thanksgiving, when I was little I thought everyone had roast turkey for a birthday dinner. Once that was cleared up, I was relieved to be 16 [driver's license], 21 [legal to drink], and after that - phooey. My 39th year was a huge mess of things I thought I 'needed' to do before I turned 40. I did meet DH during that year, but it was the one stroke of good fortune. Besides, my kids keep getting older just as fast as I do, and I'm not READY to be the parent of adults!

    6:03 PM  
    Blogger Lori Foster said...

    Hey Suzanne, I sure hope you had a terrific birthday. I tend to forget dates for myself and my husband. But I remember the kids. We always do something for them, but don't make much of a deal on our own days. Who has time!? LOL.

    I do think on my 50th I'll celebrate the fact that I made it that far. The past year has been pretty tough!

    Hugs,

    Lori

    6:00 AM  
    Blogger Kristine said...

    Suzanne, my birthday is also on August 29, so I'm celebrating along with you.

    My mom always made a big deal out of birthdays when I was young, so even as an adult, I tend to treat my birthday as my own personal national holiday. I don't expect others to see it that way, but it's the one day out of the year that I pamper myself.

    Happy Birthday!
    Kristine Coblitz

    9:45 AM  
    Blogger Suzanne Simmons said...

    Happy Birthday, Kristine! I love the description of your birthday as your own personal national holiday!

    Believe me, I fully intend to pamper myself just as soon as I get the edits done on the WIP. :-)

    10:35 AM  
    Blogger Suzanne Simmons said...

    anonymous wrote: Birthdays in and off themselves are not important. How you live your life IS.

    This is so true! I couldn't agree more!

    10:38 AM  
    Blogger Suzanne Simmons said...

    Lori, some years are definitely more "challenging" than others. Believe me, I do understand.

    Thank you for the birthday wishes, everyone!

    I intend to celebrate big time once I take a brief (and I do mean very brief!) hiatus from writing in September.

    10:45 AM  
    Blogger Pia said...

    Happy Birthday, Suzanne!

    My husband and I love celebrating birthdays. The best one was when I turned 32, we just moved to a new city and were totally broke. I woke up to a lot of "Happy Birthday" signs. Bong told me that if I found all 32 signs that there would be a gift waiting for me. Since our apartment was quite small, the signs were everywhere (the freezer, the closet, the drawer), it was so much fun looking...
    My husband on the otherhand has 2 birthdays, so if I miss one - there is still another to make up for.

    10:46 AM  
    Blogger Suzanne Simmons said...

    Pia, what a wonderful story about your 32nd birthday! I love it!

    10:52 AM  
    Blogger DebVA said...

    Ah, birthdays...I still have a hard time realizing that being 48 means I'm 'grown up.' What the heck is adulthood anyway? I work with some great 20-30 year olds and I don't realize we're not 'peers' until I mention something that happened before they were born...think the Soviet Union. "I read about that in history class..." ARGH!

    As for birthdays...I use them as an excuse to go to really nice restruraunts with friends....drink good wine AND have dessert...and to take a trip to the Red Door Spa. Now THAT is the part of 'adulthood' I like...I can now afford good wine, good resturaunts and Elizabeth Arden :)

    Happy Birthday!
    Deb

    6:24 PM  
    Blogger susan andersen said...

    Happy birthday, Suzanne!!!! I love a woman who knows how to stretch out a celebration~ ~Susan

    11:35 PM  
    Blogger Suzanne Simmons said...

    Thanks, Susan, for the birthday wishes!

    The really good part is it's virtually impossible to be late for my birthday or to miss it! It just keeps going and going and going . . . kind of like the pink energizer bunny. (Pictured in a slightly different reincarnation on my web site for those who may not have noticed.)

    Stella has frogs. Suzanne has pink rabbits. Hm . . .

    11:17 AM  
    Blogger talpianna said...

    Suzanne, three guesses what I have!

    qpomb --Quantities, plethora, of moles, babe.

    11:34 PM  
    Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Hi, I'm all for stretching it out for a while so I take my time catching up with friends for coffee or dinner over the week before and week after. I usually declare it a holiday and take the day off work if it's a weekday! But it's about how you chose to celebrate - my fiance chose the day before my birthday to tell me it was over last year (thanks for that lingering memory hon!) so I postponed and celebrated later.

    5:59 PM  
    Blogger Suzanne Simmons said...

    talpianna, I can only guess it might be moles. :-) They seem to come up pretty often in your posts.

    anonymous, yep, every now and then something truly ridiculous or awful has happened on my birthday (like two years ago), I not only postponed, but permanently cancelled that birthday.

    On the plus side, that also means I didn't count that year in my age. :-)

    2:00 PM  

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