ELIZABETH LOOKS AT PETS

A week ago, I was watching my grandson with his three shiny new fish. He and his two-year-old sister had picked them out and named them for characters in an action game I’ve never heard of. I doubt if the fish had, either.
The fish didn’t care. They just wanted to be fed.
The household already has a cat, but she’s so old she sleeps 23 hours a day. The kids both had been jonesing for a puppy. They settled for fish.
This time.
The subject will come up again sooner than my son likes. He wants a dog, too. But first he wants the youngest to be old enough to handle a pet carefully, to give it space and peace when it needs both. Right now the youngest is a full-scream toddler, and has the cat-scratches to prove it. (No matter how hard he tries, Dad can’t be everywhere at once.)
So I’m watching three fish twitch and shimmy for food, and thinking of various pets I’ve had. All dogs, because my Dad and I were allergic to cats. There was Rooter the Scots terrier, Doc (her half-breed pup), Terri (a beagle-Chihuahua cross), Trouble (a black lab, German shorthair cross), and Rainy Day Lady, a leggy, silky-eared silver weimaraner.

I still miss all of them. I especially miss my Rainy Day Lady, the beautiful, blithe spirit who broke all of our hearts when she died.
We meant to get another dog after Rain died, but the kids were grown and gone, and we were moving households to Washington state. In our kidless, petless condition, Evan and I found ourselves traveling enough to make up for the twenty-two years we lived in one place raising kids and pets. When we’re in AZ, Heather’s beagle Darwin, and pound rescue Sydney (aka the Dingo) visit often. When we’re in WA, we chat up strangers’ dogs.
We’re still traveling, still mugging strange dogs for our furry fix, and still planning to get a dog.
Someday.
But not today.
Do you have pet memories you cherish? Are you at a place in your life where you can enjoy having pets of your own?
And just in case you think people are the only species that needs the companionship of others....



















