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    Friday, September 22, 2006

    Getting to Know You

    Note: Sorry for the later blog - it's storming here in Ohio again, and the internet was temporarily down. But we needed the rain, so it's okay - as long as you forgive me.

    So...I was at a loss this week on what to blog about. My brain is so crushed full of story stuff - the characters I'm working on, the characters I want to work on, answering emails to readers asking if I'll be writing a book for Tim or Denny (the answer is no, not anytime soon) and line edits, plot points, tying together loose ends on the current plot - I couldn't seem to focus on anything interesting for a blog.
    I'm pretty sure you don't want to hear about my bouts of frazzled confusion while trying to do too much. Or the times that I forget something important. Or the times I can't stop thinking about the unimportant things.

    So... what should I blog?
    I asked my readers group because they're such an inspiring, fun, great bunch of folks who never fail to boost me when I need it.

    They said: The weather changes! Ah yeah, a great topic... if Stella hadn't just done that.

    Then they said: Your beloved pets!
    I had to laugh, since I decided on that, and then Elizabeth did it first. (GMTA?!)

    I finally just decided to get to know you better.
    And with that in mind -

    What do you like most about yourself?
    What do you like least?
    (I'm not talking physically - women are notoriously hard on themselves when they look in the mirror.)

    To give you a clue, I'll go first.

    I like that I'm usually well organized, but I don't let it take over my life. Most times, I'm good at juggling several things and getting them done in a satisfactory manner.
    But I don't like that I'm so controlling and have a very hard time handing over anything responsibility that I feel is important.

    What do you like most about your current life?
    For me, it's watching the way my family pulls together in times of need.
    We're all supportive of each other and seeing that does a mother's heart good.
    What do I dislike most? That we live in such crazy chaos when I really thought these would be our calmer years.

    What do you think others value in you most?
    I try to be as helpful to others as I can, and I never see being helpful as a chore. If I can assist someone, and make a difference, then I want to do that.
    What do others dislike most about me?
    I'm sure it's that I'm so opinionated.
    The older I get, the better I am about zipping my lip when it doesn't concern me, or when no one has asked for my opinion. But yeah, it took me 49 years to get there, and minding my own business is still a work in progress.

    So what about you? Share a little of yourself. Nothing too uncomfortable, nothing that you feel is too private. But be honest, okay?


    24 Comments:

    Anonymous Dani said...

    I don't know where to stick this but Jayne was mentioned on the Janet Evanovich website as being a favourite read, that's cool I think.

    6:34 AM  
    Blogger Cbell said...

    Well... this will be thought-provoking.

    What do I like most about myself?
    The fact that I can make people laugh at the drop of a hat. I enjoy making people laugh. I enjoy being someone who can ease other people's burden, if only for a few seconds. The downside is that sometimes I will say ANYthing if I know it is going to create the laugh, and that can be inappropriate at times. But generally, I like to have a good time, especially when it is a stinky kind of day!

    What do I like least? As I am still single and getting older by the day, I am starting to really think I'm missing out on the whole husband thing. BUT... I wouldn't want the wrong one and I really don't think Mr. Right and I have found each other. I don't want children, but I wouldn't mind having a husband. I've always been the bridesmaid, and I have the awful bridesmaid gowns to show for it! Ha!

    Current Life: Since I don't have kids, my nieces and nephews reign supreme. The oldest just graduated high school and the youngest just made his JV middle school football team. They keep me jumping!

    What do others value most? Probably my decisiveness and forthrightness. I try to think before I speak... but people just know I'm going to share my opinion!

    6:35 AM  
    Blogger DFender said...

    What do you like most about yourself?
    My sense of humor

    What do you like least?
    My gnat-size patience.

    What do you like most about your current life?
    The fact that our two teenagers (19 & 16) are on the right road.

    What do I dislike most?
    The fact that I'm too young to retire!

    What do you think others value in you most?
    My honesty. Value? yes. Like? Maybe not so much...lol.

    What do others dislike most about me?
    My very...uh...disturbing habit of enjoying either side of a debate.

    Thanks, Lori. It's nice to "know" you ;)

    Deb

    nijnove: an african car of some sort... ? lol

    7:54 AM  
    Blogger Lori Foster said...

    Hey Dani, thanks for putting that info here! As a JAK fan, I can totally agree. :-)

    Cbell, being married to a comedian myself, I value the power of a good laugh. I think that's one heck of a great attribute! My husband always has me chuckling, and I love it - and him. ;-)

    Deb, if you can enjoy both sides of a debate, you're way ahead of me. I really am too opinionated and generally, I see my side and only my side. But honestly, I'm working on that flaw a lot.

    Hugs to everyone! Still raining here. And brrrr... pretty chilly too!

    Lori

    8:00 AM  
    Blogger Kelley said...

    My favorite thing about myself is my caring nature.

    least favorite is my impatience. I'm really trying to work on that.

    8:18 AM  
    Blogger Laurie D. said...

    Great topic, Lori! See, you didn't need anyone to help you come up with something after all!

    What do you like most about yourself? I try to be positive and upbeat as much as possible.

    What do you like least? My tendency to procrastinate.

    What do you like most about your current life? I'm fortunate to have a job that I enjoy, although I would prefer not having to do it, I have a wonderful husband, a solid marriage, and our daughters appear to be on the track to being productive citizens.

    What do you think others value in you most? I hope they think that I'm helpful and eager to lend a hand, or shoulder, when needed.

    What do others dislike most about me? I'm admittedly a bit of a weenie, crying at the drop of a hat, sometimes not sticking up for myself. They probably think I'm much too soft.

    8:54 AM  
    Blogger susanna in alabama said...

    What do you like most about yourself?
    Three way tie - my creativity, intense curiosity and sense of humor

    What do you like least?
    My tendency to either hyperfocus on a task or have the attention span of a 3 year old full of Twinkies.

    What do you like most about your current life?
    Living in the South again, close to my nieces ages 6, 4 and 7 mo. But there's a lot more to like too! I have a good life.

    What do I dislike most?
    That I don't have someone to share this good life with.

    What do you think others value in you most?
    I'm a good problem solver and really enjoy helping people when they ask for it.

    What do others dislike most about me?
    Time is something of a loose concept to me; I'm perpetually late, and live life in a fairly ad hoc way. Fortunately, as a grant writer, I have a job that fits my work mode - intense focus and long hours for relatively short periods of time, followed by not much to do for periods of time. And when I help people on projects, I can be focused... unless it takes too long :D.

    10:54 AM  
    Anonymous Anonymous said...

    What do you like most about yourself?
    My sense of humor. I amuse myself, even if no one else finds me funny.

    What do you like least?
    Sometimes I come off a little harsh

    What do you like most about your current life?
    I'm fulfilling a dream.

    What do I dislike most?
    I'm away from my family and good books are EXTREMELY hard to find.

    What do you think others value in you most?
    My loyalty, sense of humor and I stand up for what I believe in

    What do others dislike most about me?
    My stubborness


    Ro

    10:56 AM  
    Blogger elizabeth said...

    Gee, Lori, you sound a lot like me.

    *Is that Lori running and screaming off into the night?*

    10:58 AM  
    Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Hi Lori-

    It's raining here in Springfield, too. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

    I like most about me that I'm warm and nurturing. I like least about me that I'm disorganized.

    My life is great - I have a wonderful husband a great job and two cute boys (who drive me nuts).

    Then there are the days my life sucks, my husband does something stupid and then gives me the puppy eyes, the boys are fighting with each other and I can't hear myself think, the cats are chasing each other and my boss wants three things done right now - and isn't here to do any of them.

    Others value me for a shoulder to lean on.
    Others probably dislike me for being wimpy and then complaining about it.

    Marva

    (red)mwhwcrfy: my whole house wants creamy red fruit yummies.

    11:08 AM  
    Blogger Karibear said...

    What do I like most and least about myself?
    I like that I apparently have an unlimited supply of patience. Patience is definitely a good thing, when one has kids, especially if one were a single parent. I have compassion for others, human and non-human alike. I’m not a hypocrite, and don’t care for those who are. I’m a great listener, not judgmental. I believe if I’m getting paid to do a job, I should do the best I can, not shirk because I might not think it’s the best job in the world. I love reading, I love learning new things, I love being creative - and I don’t think ‘creativity’ is involved in putting together a kit or a paint-by-numbers thing.

    Most of those positive things vanish when it comes to dealing with self-centered idiots, though. I’m far too polite to tell them what I think of them, but I do my best to avoid people who’ve exposed too much of their negativeness to me. And I have no compassion at all for anyone who mistreats their family and/or pets.

    And I have a virtually paralyzing ability to see both sides of almost any argument.

    What do I think others like?
    That same supply of unlimited patience drives my DH nuts! He’s the kind of driver who can’t stand other people’s idiocy behind the wheel, and is very vocal about it. When I was still driving, he was the worst backseat driver in the world, telling me to do this or that, not let that so-and-so get away with whatever - not that he ever does anything himself, he’s strictly a defensive driver, but it still made him crazy that I didn’t complain!

    For some reason, people tell me things. Total strangers will tell me things they wouldn’t tell a shrink [or maybe it’s because I AM a total stranger]. It frustrates me at times, because sometimes my friends will tell me much more than I want to know about themselves, their spouses, etc, and we end up not being friends after all.

    But with all that, I can and do keep secrets. It was vital in my last job as a vocational rehab counselor. People tell the most appalling secrets about themselves, and one simply cannot pass them on, no matter what. A single anecdote 20 years later is one thing, gossiping is totally another, and I’ve never cared for gossips anyway, they’ve always seemed to have a malicious agenda.

    That same capacity for being a good and compassionate listener has enabled me to understand why many of the people I’ve come across in my life that I thought were lacking in some way became the way they were. It’s difficult to be too hard on someone when one learns that his own mother has tried multiple times to kill him in a drunken rage, either by running over him with a car or trying to beat his brains out with a baseball bat or shoot him, or was so busy with her numerous ‘friends’ she didn’t have time for him and put him into an endless succession of foster homes. What amazes me is that so many of them aren’t any worse than they are - and as far as I can tell, every one of them has very much appreciated having their successes, however small, appreciated by me.

    What do I think about my current life?
    Heh. I try not to think about that so much. I don’t at all like being disabled and forced into retirement. It does give one a new appreciation for those who deal with bureaucracies at all levels, though. Mostly it’s given me a lot of time to think about family relationships. You’ve guessed, I’m sure, that I have a very ambivalent one with my mother. That is due mainly to her having had serious mental health issues as far back as I can remember, and they’ve gotten progressively worse over the years. At various times I worry about becoming like her, then I think about it and realize it will never happen. I think about my kids - not really kids, they are both in their 30s - and wonder what, if anything, I might have done differently, and decide I’d have done exactly what I did - if it was the right thing at the time, it was the right thing, period.

    What I dislike most now is my inability to have much of a physical life. After years of running a dogsled, hiking through wilderness, beachcombing, chopping firewood, walking miles to work [much of what was physical labor] - now it’s an effort just to walk to the mailbox. And it takes me days to recuperate from a simple trip to the grocery store. But as an old friend once said, “Life may suck, but it beats the alternative.”

    11:48 AM  
    Blogger DFender said...

    Sheesh. With all this humor we should be hysterical!

    3:29 PM  
    Anonymous Lori of Canada said...

    Hmmm. Interesting questions, Lori. (oh, and no forgiveness required). We are praying for rain here; the well is super low and Sept has been a dry month so far.

    What do I like most about myself? Hmm. I like that I am willing to jump in and become involved when needed, and that I can laugh as easily as I can.

    What do I like least? Sometimes, I think I can be a bit paradoxical. I seem very outgoing, and it always shocks people how shy I think I really am, especially with personal relationships. I think I seem a lot more confident than I often feel. (I am work more and more on my organization).

    What Do I like most about my current life? Stability. I have a permanent job, that I find fulfilling; I work with people I like. I have a house (even though I struggle financially).

    What do I dislike most? Like Cbell, I have moments where I wish I had companionship. I would like to find a husband/a partner. But, like Cbell, I don't want to be with someone to have someone. I also dislike my financial struggles. However, I think that is easier to work on. ;)

    I think others value most my loyalty and how much I care and am willing to put into the people and things around me.

    What others dislike? Lori, I think you and I share that trait. I know there are people who don't like when I express myself as much as I do. However, I am also learning when not to express my opinion (when it isn't going to serve any good whatsoever).

    Great questions, Lori. Definitely made me think.

    Lori M.

    4:51 PM  
    Blogger Lori Foster said...

    Hey Lori M., I still remember when you got your house. It was so awesome witnessing your excitement! I've said it many times, but you and I have a LOT in common - namely our choice of movies! LOL. If only you weren't in Canada... we could go weekly to the theater!

    Karibear, I can always "hear" your frustration with the disability. Big hugs to you.

    Marva, I can't imagine anyone being wimpier than me. LOL. Living with all males really showcases the ways that I wimp out - like with bugs. Or anything heavy or physically difficult. And they never cry, while I get teary-eyed over everything. LOL.
    Your love for your guys shines through. And ya know, when the boys are making too much noise and it's turning you berserk, just think if they *couldn't* do it. That's what I always did, and it made me appreciate their noisiness more. LOL

    HUGS everyone!

    Lori

    7:08 PM  
    Blogger Lori Foster said...

    Hey Ro, what is the dream!? I wanna know. :-)


    Susanna, I love your acceptance of "being late." My sis is the type of person that if I need her somewhere at 3, I tell her 2, so she'll *maybe* be on time. LOL. But she frets over it a lot, and doesn't really accept it about herself. We are who we are, ya know?

    Laurie D., I could write a whole blog just on what I like about you. YOu're very giving, very caring, considerate, and always upbeat and helpful. That's just the tip of the iceberg! I'm soooo glad to have you as my friend!
    Big hugs!

    Ann, if you could have seen me today... to quote the road runner, "Beep beep zip tang!" It's been a wild one. ;-)

    Lori

    7:13 PM  
    Blogger Stella said...

    Grump, grump, Lori...

    Great questions if you're good at examining yourself, I'm not. I think I just don't like doing it. I've read your blog (so honest and open) and everyone else's and enjoyed learning more about folks.

    I do like to do my bit.

    Like? Hmm. Good listener, interested in others, always willing to learn. My husband and children are my greatest assets and I love 'em to pieces. And I like that I'm an absolute drip over animals.

    Don't like? Too sensitive. React too quickly and tend to question those reactions, including what I say.

    I refuse to dig deeper now:)

    Cheers, Stella

    1:18 AM  
    Anonymous Lori of Canada said...

    Lori,

    Yup. We definitely share a few characteristics. ;)

    One of these years, I will get to make it to the get-together and we can meetin person.

    Lori M.

    3:07 AM  
    Blogger Lori Foster said...

    Stella, I could dig on you if you wouldn't mind. :-)
    From the moment I met you, you were one of the most gracious, kindhearted, and genuinely caring people I'd ever met in the biz.
    I've seen you pinch up at conferences when someone is poking fun at someone else.
    I've seen you glow when talking about favorite books, or your pets, or your kids... It's terrific to witness.
    And I've seen you interact with new authors in a way that has them all singing your praises later.
    I have seen you be very sensitive, but usually toward others.

    So there. ;-)
    Big hugs!

    Lori M., I would soooo love it if you made it to the get together! That'd be awesome. We should set a goal - like a year - to make it happen!

    Hugs everyone!
    Still raining here. LOL

    Lori

    4:18 AM  
    Anonymous Lori of Canada said...

    Lori,

    This is my hope: a year from March, I get to refinance my mortgage and I will have some significant debts paid off (yippee). If all goes well, I am planning to try and make it to 2008.

    (It is supposed to rain here tonight; good for me, crappy for the outdoor Rolling Stones concert tonight)
    Lori M.

    5:14 AM  
    Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Lori,

    I'm a Peace Corps volunteer. I'm teaching English to 4-8th graders in a small town in Romania.

    I have a year+ down and 9 months to go.


    Ro

    2:22 PM  
    Blogger Lori Foster said...

    Lori M., 2008 would be AWESOME! You've been so good with your budget. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. :-)

    Ro, wow, I'm so impressed. That truly is a dream job, and an admirable one. Kudos!

    It's sunny! It's sunny! Yay. Today is my grandson's 1 year birthday and we're having a slew of people over to celebrate. I was so afraid everyone would be sealed inside and we wouldn't even be able to open the windows. But instead, it's gorgeous out! Shew! LOL

    HUGS,

    Lori

    5:49 AM  
    Anonymous Lori of Canada said...

    Thanks, Lori. It feels great; I still get overwhelmed sometimes, with a little despair over it all. However, I think I have managed some good advancement.


    Happy birthday! to your grandson!! I kow you all will have a great time; he is definitely well loved.

    Lori M.

    6:17 AM  
    Blogger Suzanne Simmons said...

    Lori, how wonderful to be celebrating your grandson's first birthday!

    What do I value the most about myself? My sense of humor. (What I affectionately call my "Iowa cornball sense of humor.)

    What I dislike the most? Don't even get me started! :-)

    Have a great day, everyone!

    9:50 AM  
    Anonymous Sara Mallion said...

    Lori, I have no clue if I am putting this in the correct spot or not but you wanted the silliest or funniest or craziest Christmas present we had ever gotten and I couldn't find another spot on your blog page so I figured we were just supposed to post them here. So here goes. The first year that my husband and I were dating we had started talking about getting married but had not made any definate plans yet. Well we had decided that we would spend Christmas with his family in Buffalo, NY and I was very excited. Being a girl from South Carolina I had never had a white Christmas so this was a real treat for me. Well on Christmas Eve my now sister-in-law suggested that we open up all of the gag gifts that we had bought for one another(This is a tradition in there family that we still practice today of giving everyone a gag gift every year). Well when it came to my turn from her she made a big speach about how if her brother was never going to be man enough to propose to me and actually make me a member of the family they had decided to do it as a group and propose to me together. So she gave me my gift. When I opened it, it was a large dog chew toy in the shape of a ring. It has a big golden yellow band with a huge pink stone in the center and it's actually big enough to fit on my wrist. I have never laughed so hard in my life. But the surprise was that my now husband had sewn my actual engagement ring under the huge pink stone so when he took the giant ring from me to act like he was looking at it he then pulled out the real ring and got down on one knee and proposed. So my silliest gift ever turned into my best gift ever also. Well that's the story of how Sara Price became Sara Mallion. Hope this was something like you were looking for. Thanks for all the great books and can't wait to read the next one.

    4:26 AM  

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