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Thursday, May 01, 2008

Mother's Day Blowout!


Have we got a contest for you!! Well, actually, it's not so much a contest as it is a drawing. But the Quill Sisters are in the mood to talk Mums-- and I'm not talking flowers here. So from now until Mother's Day everyone who posts in response to our posts will be entered for a chance to win. And wouldja...lookit...
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Yes, my pretties, everything you see here can be yours. Why, you'll think it's Christmas, Momma's Day and your birthday all rolled into one when these babies start rolling in. (The mailman is gonna LUV you. Or maybe hate you--there's a lot of stuff, it could go either way) We've got books, books, a bag to carry them in, more books, a tee to wear while reading them, books and...did I mention books? All personally inscribed to you, natch.

So come on out of lurkdom and join the fun. You might be very glad you did.


Susan's sweet baby boy and strawberry waffles

Oddly enough, this isn't a story of my mother but about me. (And yes, I can hear those of you who know me well saying, yeah, yeah, isn't it always?) But becoming a mom was a very big deal for me. It took me several years to get pregnant. We went through a battery of tests, ingested fertility drugs, took temperatures on a Basal thermometer and had sex on a schedule. (sucks the joy right out of the act, lemme tell you) When my OB-GYN ran out of procedures and ideas, he sent me to the University of Washington's Fertility clinic.

The doctor who did the original workup was on an Endocrinology Fellowship from Ireland. So when he found a lump in my throat, everything fertility related came to a screeching halt. Turned out I had a cancerous growth on my thyroid. That was in December and I went home pissed off and discouraged. Which pretty much shows how young I was (25) because I wasn't as concerned with the fact that I probably had cancer as I was that they hadn't finished the tests. I decided then and there that I didn't need a baby, that we had each other, Steve was back in college, we had a mortgage and a dog and I was looking at weeks, if not months of tests, surgery and recovery --and that was more than enough.

You can see this one coming, right? Because having decided this, the next month I began waking up sicker 'n a dog and, yep, I was pregnant. So the Mother's day before our sweet baby boy was even born, the soulmate made me strawberry waffles for breakfast--a tradition that endures to this day.

(I love this pic. It was taken the day we brought our baby home from the hospital, then discovered 27 years later when we took the mantle off the fireplace. It's usually pinned to my bulletin board in my office)

We aren't talking Eggos--he makes his own waffles, combines fresh and frozen strawberries and whips up the highest fat cream in the universe. And, oh, mama, it is to die for. (Our son is a chef--I think he got his abilities more from his dad than from me) In the thirty-three years since that first Mother's Day breakfast, we've only missed our time-honored strawberry waffles once--and that was because the soulmate was on a three month start up on Ascension Island in the middle of the Atlantic and my son had to work.

So how about you? Have any Mother's Day traditions?

72 Comments:

Blogger talpianna said...

Do I qualify as a mom by having two demanding, fussy, and occasionally cuddly meezers?

1:11 AM  
Blogger Margay said...

The only tradition I have on Mother's Day is to spend it with my own mother. The events of the day itself may vary from year to year, but I always like to visit her, bring her a plant for her garden, and just cherish our relationship and remember what a great person I think she is.

2:24 AM  
Blogger DFender said...

Susan,

The picture is gorgeous... who looks that good the day after they come home from having said baby boy? Huh? Who? What makes you so lucky? You... you... bad word. LOLOL. Seriously, it's a beautiful photo, baby boy and Mommy. Nice legs, too. LOL.

Mom's Day traditions? I make my Mom palascinta every Mom's Day. It's the hungarian version of crepes. My Gramma taught me how to make them and even though she's my Mom's Mom... my Mom never learned to cook from her. I learned all of my cooking from my Gramma. Anyway, palascinta is my Mom's very favorite thing and I make her a stack every Mom's Day.

My kids (ages 17 and 20) STILL use empty/bare toilet paper, wrapping paper and paper towel cardboard rolls (linked together) and write me a colorful message using crayons, markers, glitter, glue and paint. It started when my daughter was 5 and my son 2. Last year's reads: "Thank you for the gifts you give and for everything you do, but thank you Mommy most of all for making dreams come true."

Yeah, I cry. Sentimental slob that I am. I have so many messages on cardboard rolls from the last 15 years that I keep 'em in a box in the attic... of course I keep the current year's offering right on the shelf next to our fireplace. LOL.

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ALL THE GREAT MOM'S AT RWQ! Blessings for a wonderful, warm, spring day filled with love and peace.

Deb

6:01 AM  
Blogger Lori Foster said...

Ahhhh. Sniff, sniff. Susan, that's such a beautiful story. seriously. I got all weepy, so grateful that the cancer was treatable, that you got that beautiful baby boy, and that your "one and only" is so considerate.
Thank you for sharing. It's a fabulous way to start my day.

I don't have any real traditions. The boys are sometimes so scattered that it ends up being Mother's "Week" instead of day. LOL. They do what they can, when they can. And the husband cooks me breakfast almost every day now that he's retired, so I can't even count that.

Big hugs!
Lori

6:01 AM  
Anonymous Tammy said...

Out tradition is we fix mom whatever she wants to eat (of course), and we plant a tree.

The tradition started years ago when mom could see and get around, now that she's nearly blind and bed-bound we keep up the tradition this way. We ask mom what type of tree she'd like this year (lol usually it's a lilac - those are her favorites), then my sister or I go and plant it (only one of us can do the actual planting now because someone has to stay with mom 24/7). When that's done, mom decides what she wants for supper, and we get started making it.

We used to do flowers for mom, but after we got the one cat - we stopped, he destroys flowers/plants in minutes. Needless to say after the 3rd or 4th time we said enough and now don't have plants in the house.

Hope everyone has a great Mother's Day!

6:50 AM  
Blogger Melissa said...

What a gorgeous picture, Susan...and a wonderful story!!
My family's tradition is to always spend the day with my Mom...we usually cook out, as that's her favorite thing to do if the weather is good, and we'll see what she's in the mood for, steaks, ribs...whatever...and we just hang out, talk about everything and enjoy. We don't get to do that very often since we're all grown up, so Mom really likes it when we all actually get to sit down an be together.

8:10 AM  
Blogger Jen in WA said...

I can't think of any Mothers Day traditions in our family outside of the family all gathering together for dinner for my mom. And it's the one meal that she doesn't have to cook at a gathering.

8:17 AM  
Blogger Laura said...

What a wonderful picture. I'm sure it brings the day back to you every time you look at it. The waffles sound heavenly. Happy Mother's day all.

8:23 AM  
Blogger Ann M. said...

Our tradition... is mom gets to sleep as in as late as I'd like. :) Normally there is breakfast and flowers waiting for me in the kitchen.

When the kids were very little, dh and I would give each other books from the kidlets to each other to read to them.. (Dr. Seuss mainly - and sign the books from the kids.)

8:31 AM  
Anonymous Lou said...

I just always purchased a really nice card and flowers for my Mom. I wasn't always able to spend the day with her when I became an adult, but she could always count on a card plus flowers from the best florist in her city.

Lou

8:44 AM  
Anonymous Lou said...

P.S. Great picture!!

8:46 AM  
Blogger Molly said...

I am not a mother myself, but we do have a "tradition" for my mother.

Every year at our church, the men prepare breakfast for the mothers. Such a thoughtful gesture. My father's role, without fail, is to make plans for us to be out of town that day so he doesn't have to make breakfast. It's traditions like these that keep our family laughing.

Susan, you're lucky you have such a nice husband.

9:25 AM  
Blogger elizabeth said...

No tradition, just many memories of giggling kids bringing peanut butter toast to me in bed.

I think my grandkids do something similiar with their mom. :-)

10:27 AM  
Blogger LeeAnn said...

We always do a dinner on Mothers Day and every year we always get our gifts the night before :o) My Dad can’t wait so he gives my Mom hers and has my Son give me mine :o)

This year I wont be home for Mothers Day so I have to come up with something really good for my Mom.

10:46 AM  
Anonymous Deanna said...

I usually get phone calls from my four on Mother's Day. We no longer live very near each other. For me as for most Mothers, just making it through the day is sometimes enough. Oh how good that bed feels.
How lucky you were that your cancer was discovered early.
Nappy Mother's Day to all the Quills.

11:04 AM  
Blogger susan andersen said...

Talpianna, we ALL qualify.

Margay, a relationship with you mother like yours is definitely something to treasure! I usually see my mom the day before MD, because she usually goes up to Whidby Island with my oldest brother and his family and that's a deal that takes the entire day.

Deb, you doll, you! They used to keep us in the hospital 3 days, which gave you a little more time to recuperate. But the legs were pretty good, weren't they? *g* They are NOWHERE near as firm these days, lemme tell you.

The palascinta sounds wonderful and it's like my waffles: something I identify with the day and sooo look forward to! And I LOVE homemake cards/gifts. My son is 32 and I have a mom tag he made from some shrinky-dink stuff for a Christmas package a couple of years ago hanging from one of the shelve in my desk hutch. And on my bookshelf I have the card AND envelope from a mother's day card--the envelope because it has this huge MOM in fat,fancy letters, which he colored in graduating flame-like colors with these pretty green embelishments. I keep meaning to frame them one day, but until I do, I've got it to look at every day.

12:00 PM  
Blogger Cathy said...

When my boys were still living at home they would make me breakfast in bed, and give me a home made card. My hubby always gives me a bouquet of carnations and my favorite drink, a mocha frapp. As far as my own mom, I am the only daughter that lives close, so we always have my mom and dad over for dinner cooked by my dh and my boys.

1:43 PM  
Blogger Jayne Ann Krentz said...

What a wonderful story, Susan! Like Lori, I got a little teary-eyed just reading it. Who'd believe it if you actually put that into a book???? You know what they say, truth is ALWAYS more astonishing than fiction.

Can't wait to see who wins that sack of loot in our new blog contest.

--Jayne

2:41 PM  
Anonymous Lori of Canada said...

Susan,

That is a wonderful story. Life, sometimes, holds miracles and blessings when we least expect it.

We don't have any traditions in my family. My Dad and Mom both have families that didn't celebrate those types of things or birthdays (partly due to the size of the families plus not a lot of $$$$). As long as my mom hears from us, she says she is happy.

Not a mom myself, I have a dog and teach a ton of students per year.... don't think that necessarily counts. Am planning on painting and doing work around my house.

Lori M.

3:09 PM  
Blogger Kathleen Pearlman said...

Usually my tradition was to be left alone - this year it's more of the same, but this year, as well as the last, marked the first couple years that I got a gift from my now working daughter and nothing from her father. I guess I'm just getting old - that and I live too far from my mother. I always send flowers to my mom for Mother's Day... Now I have a kitty daughter, too, and I figure I'll get a couple of sharp nips and a meow or two from her, too. :-)

3:25 PM  
Blogger Judy F said...

Susan what a great story.

I only have a cat and he doesn't do a darn thing for me. Even though I have to get his food at the vets. Ungrateful...LOL

I normally spend the day down my parents. My mom likes to get gift certs to where she gets her hair done. So that works for me.

3:45 PM  
Blogger Dina said...

Mothers days in the past were fun to spend time with my daughters, didn't matter what we did. There was always a card waiting for my on my somputer, they knew that's what I did first thing in the mourning. Not, mothers day doesn't mean much for me.

3:58 PM  
Blogger susan andersen said...

Lori--hard to beat a hubby who cooks breakfast every day!

Tammy, where do you plant the trees? In your/your mom's yard? Or for the city somewhere?

Melissa, we, too, have had many barBQs as Mother's Day in Seattle is traditionally a nice weather day. The only time we went out for a meal we took my mil out for lunch the day before. (She had Altheimers and didn't do well with crowds) I'm not crazy about bucking crowds myself and prefer our homecooked meals on holidays.

Jen, gathering is the tradition--and if you're like us, it''s generally potluck where everybody brings something to share.

Laura, you know what I remember most about that day? My dad was still alive and he walked around with Christopher sprawled out asleep on his outstretched arm, his little head nestled in Dad's hand.

4:15 PM  
Blogger susan andersen said...

Ann, oh yeah, sleeping in! Particularly cool when the kids are little and still getting up at the crack of dawn. We don't always exchange gifts but I usually get some flowers too, even if they're just picked from the yard.

Lou and Deanna, it's a bit harder when your parents/kids live in another city, isn't it?

Molly...Men. You gotta love em, right? *gggg* Love his avoidence technique. Sounds like my middle brother.

Elizabeth--see, tradition continues. Kids are the greatest when it comes to that sort of thing, because they're so excited about being a part of the conspiracy.

Leeann, you sound like one of my aunts and uncles--I don't think they ever made it to Christmas Eve without opening all the presents!

Cathy, you've got the best of all worlds--your folks for dinner and your guys to do the cooking!! Not to mention flowers, b in bed and a mocha frap!!

4:30 PM  
Blogger susan andersen said...

Jayne, ain't it the truth? *g*

Lori, good luck on the painting. I spent the last two weekends sponge painting a new color atop my living room walls. My hand's stuck in a claw shape, but I love the way it turned out.

Kathleen, if your mom is anything like me, I bet she LOVES getting flowers!

Judy--those darn cats. Not a speck of gratitude. 'Course, in their minds there's no need to buy the staff gifts.

Dina, your daughters must be grown and gone, huh?

4:40 PM  
Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

WONDERFUL story, Susan!!!! Sniff. Sniff.

Maybe we're twins separated at birth...at least back when we were in our twenties. Somewhere there's a photo of me as a new mom holding our baby boy. In those days I had long dark hair, great legs, and favored pale blue nighties. (Most of you know I was a brunette until several years ago. My legs...well, they aren't what they used to be. But I still favor blue nighties:)

Mother's Day traditions: We spend a joyful weekend with that baby boy, who is now a grown man with his own family.

Hugs all,
EG

5:17 PM  
Blogger susan andersen said...

Now me, EG, I'm a PJ girl these days. All different colors.

And I have serious grandmother envy for all of you who have grandkids. It's going to be a looooong time before I have any of those--if ever.

I just hope it's before I'm drooling in the home.

I'm off for the weekend! "see" you all next week. ~Susan

5:39 PM  
Blogger talpianna said...

The meezers usually take turns curling up on top of me in bed and purring. Perhaps as a special Mother's Day treat, they'll keep their claws in....

6:02 PM  
Blogger Heather said...

Hi Everyone,

My husband; bless his heart; always makes breakfast/brunch, or dinner, for all the Moms in the family, along with their hangers-on (partners, kids, etc.). Last count we were 23 in total.

Unfortunately, he is a very messy cook and our daughter and I end up doing all the cleaning up.

Emily says one of these days she's going to remind him that I'm a Mom too, so we should go out to eat instead.

Hope everyone has a wonderful day!

7:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh Susan, what a sweet story. I think I told you before that I have a son about the same age as yours whom I have always referred to as my "sweet baby boy". My daughter is older, but she was always attached at the hip to my husband, so when our son came along five years later he was mine. Now that they are grown, I find myself much closer to our daughter and my husband is very close to our son. Mother's Day is now more centered around our daughter because she is Mom to two gorgeous little girls (rascals). I now find that "grandma" is the best job ever!

Happy Mother's Day to all the Quills
Lynne Thomas

7:46 PM  
Blogger acdaisy95 said...

Our mother's day tradition is that we usually have a family reunion where we all go to a restaurant to celebrate with my mom, grandma, aunts.

9:04 PM  
Blogger jill said...

What a sweet heart touching story Susan!--And a beautiful picture!
I can't say I have ever made very much out of mother's day. I do at east get my mom a card, and have actually made her a waffle breakfast a few times over the years. My husband and kids sometimes get me hanging flower baskets for the porch. Sometimes they( the flowers) even survive until the next year. I have met with skepticism tho, when I insist that I really do want more the next year. Hmmmm...
Speaking of one's child being "attached at the hip".... I "lost my son that way one time. He was about 8 months old at the time. Wea had somewhere to go, and I was rushing around the house getting myself, the 2 girls, and the baby dressed and ready, packing the diaper bag, gathering everything we needed, ect, ect. Finally I was ready. I had my purse, the diaper bag was over my shoulder. I grabbed the car seat with one hand, ready to put the baby in it- when suddenly it hit me-- "WHERE IS RYAN??". I ran through the house calling his name- nothing- . Frantically I searched under beds- everywhere. NO Ryan! I ran outside and circled the house, searching the yard- nothing. By this time I was practically screaming. I searched inside the house again. Finally, desperate, I reached for the phone to call 911- but to do that, I had to shift my hold on what I was carrying. I will never forget the look of utter peace and contentment on my son's smiling face,as I looked down and found him-- perched securely on my left hip- where he had been the entire time.
So yeah..ummm... Happy Mother's Day!
Jill

12:51 AM  
Blogger azteclady said...

That photo is so very sweet!

Thank you for sharing.

7:07 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My four children love to bring me breakfast in bed on Mother's Day. Since I usually get up with the roosters, I have to pretend to sleep until they prepare the feast (usually pancakes).
Loved the photo of you and your newborn!
Happy Mother's Day!

7:11 AM  
Anonymous Tammy said...

Susan asked - Tammy, where do you plant the trees? In your/your mom's yard? Or for the city somewhere?

We live in the country and mom lives with us (my sister and myself and mom sahre a house). The first one we did was a dogwood and we asked the town if we could plant it in th etown park, after a lot of hemming and hawing they agreed. The tree's still there and looks lovely. The rest have been on our property. We have some which ast like a hedge between us and the neighbors field and some in the yards - front and back. This ywar will be in the back yard as we had some work done and part of the yard was torn up. We have to wait for the qorkers to get the land leveled again then we'll plant one (although we may do three - we lost two when the work was done).

7:54 AM  
Anonymous Betsy said...

Susan,

What a great story! We waited a while to have kids, so Mother's Day used to be a big brunch at our house for my mom, mother-in-law, grandmother and any brothers who hadn't already made plans for their lovely wives.

Then my own little one came along and my favorite gift was time alone. DH would take offspring out to a movie or miniature golfing and I was in heaven!

Sometimes it was overwhelming because I didn't know what to do first--soak in a tub, read a book, savor the coffee, embroider a little, play with beads, putter with the garden, watch a chick flick. LOL.

Betsy

11:13 AM  
Blogger EliG said...

Our family is in the process of redefining our Mother's Day tradition with the addition of an almost 4 year old and his soon to be partner in crime baby sis. My Dad has always purchased a single red rose and two yellow for my mom for Mother's Day and my sis and I get her an orchid corsage (which is getting harder to find with the independent florists disappearing). My sis's hubby has started a tradition of having Drae make a painting for her in the morning while they let her sleep in. We'll see how that goes with Adwynn in the mix.

11:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Susan, loved the pix of you with your sweet baby boy and your story. That would certainly give extra special meaning to becoming a mother.

When the kidlets were little, they used to bring me breakfast in bed. In those days that consisted of cold cereal with milk, juice, toast, with all liquids sloshing on the tray they carried. It was so cute but I had to smother my giggles.

Now that they are grown and on their own away from home, I always get a phone call from both of them and usually something from my daughter. My son figures the effort of actually remembering to call is present enough, and with him I agree.

My daughter loves to plot and scheme to get me something unusual or that I wouldn't expect or get for myself. And, she loves to torture me. I just got an email from her yesterday letting me know that something should be arriving this week. Then of course she won't tell me what it is and I have to wait and wait to see what she came up with this year. That's the fun...anticipation. We both have a great time with it.

Happy Mother's Day to all!

Kathy H.

12:04 PM  
Anonymous aussie dee said...

not really, the cat sometimes presents a mouse or a sparrow, I give a gift voucher.

3:42 PM  
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6:57 PM  
Blogger Linda said...

No traditions in my family, but my kids are young yet. I've been hinting that sleeping late and getting woken to breakfast in bed accompanied by robins egg-blue boxes with white ribbons would be fabulous!

We'll see if the hints have taken root next week!
-Linda

6:58 PM  
Blogger Maura Anderson said...

For the most part our tradition is that I get to sleep in and my husband and kids bring me coffee and breakfast. And I don't do any chores.

This year has proven a little different - all on his own my husband decided we needed to go jewelry shopping and he and my youngest son bought me a beautiful pair of tahitian pearl earrings.

My oldest son is in bootcamp at Fort Benning, GA, so he won't be here for Mother's Day this year. I'm hoping he'll be able to give me a call...

- maura

8:42 PM  
Blogger Ranurgis said...

Love that picture, Susan, especially with the stained edges. It's very evocative.

You were in the hospital 3 whole days? At that time, I lived in Germany and one of my friends was in the hospital for 2 weeks just so she could rest up well before she went back home to cope with her 2 older children and the new baby. My mother was in for a week with each of my younger siblings. So I was astonished when my nephew's wife went in only for the birth itself and went home an hour later. How times have changed.

Like Tal, I have no children, but I consider that I mothered my two younger siblings a lot--I was 9 when my brother was born, 11 when my sister came along. Other than my mother, I was the only person she'd stay with.

While I was in Europe, my mother only got a Mother's Day card from me, not even a phone call. It was very hard to get a phone there in the 1970s. I was finally able to get one about a year before I came back.

When I was a teen, and not before that, Mother's Day was the only time my father ever took us out for dinner. So I'm still not very used to going out for a meal.

8:59 PM  
Blogger Ranurgis said...

Happy Mother's Day to all!

9:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow, are we backwards? Mother's Day was the leave mom alone day. Usually my parents would take off for an early breakfast and a nice drive, up the coast or east to the desert. My brother and I had to fend for ourselves and take care of things around the house. Of course this started when we were old enough to handle it - before that it was a family day, but our Sundays usually were. Now that I'm older I usually give Momma some gift and Poppy still takes her on some sort of adventure.

I love that you found your picture. That's the best, especially when you kind of forget then every detail comes flooding back.

Zeusly

I hope everyone gets their wishes.

11:32 PM  
Blogger Amy said...

What a sweet picture! We don't really have a Mother's Day tradition. It's different every year.

Amy

6:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The mother of my children wanted and I have ordered a pendant with the birth month of each of our children. All different months. I only hope it arrives before Mother's Day.

Otherwise.....

I'll think of something....or the Kids will!

Louis

2:00 PM  
Blogger Stella said...

As Susan said, Tal--Anyone qualifies as a mom--anyone who mollycoddles creatures they love.

My mother wanted only one thing for Mother's day each year: An orchid. I don't bean the sucky kind that come from the grocersy store, she wanted a spray of very exotic ones and I never saw anyone get more pleasure out of anything. Used to break my sister and me who had no money:)

I have no Mother's Day traditions. I wait for calls from my children and feel warm when they come. They usually find a way to get us together for a meal but my daughter's been a mom for eight years and three times over so it isn't all about me.

I do think what I like most is to go out with the whole bunch and see their faces.

Happy Mother's Day to all of you.

Stella

2:37 PM  
Blogger kim said...

Susan, Gr8 story! I lost my mom 8 years ago and still remember everything about her! Now my oldest son has his 1st new house and we are starting a new tradition by staying their the night before and breakfast out the next morning! Can't wait to see what els him and his brother come up with? Enjoy your own day with your son!

3:44 PM  
Blogger Darla said...

No special traditions...I try and let my mom know how special she is everyday. I'm there to help when the technology gets confusing and yet make it so she keeps as much of her independance as possible. Shes always been there for me, so I only hope I can do as well when she needs me.

6:26 PM  
Blogger Catherine said...

Some great posts!!
The only "traditions" on Mom's Day at our house--Trying to make sure the kids and Dad pick up the house and clean the dishes.
Well, there's also the trip to Brighton Accessories for some shopping!

Have a great Mom's Day all!!

Catherine

7:15 PM  
Blogger MichiganMom said...

Susan~
What a wonderful story...how scary to think that you had cancer and pregnant too. I am glad you found that precious picture.

I am step-mother to a 45, 40 and 38
year old. I tell anyone who will listen that I was 16 when the 45 year old was born..and then wait for the response. These three have been MINE for a long time. Their biological mom says that she gave birth and I raised them..nice!

With in-laws all around, we will "do" Mother's Day when we can all get together...the official day doesn't matter to us. We go to brunch with the adults and 5 grands. I seem to like that the best...no one has to cook or clean up. I am lucky because my kids bring spring plants and then do the work planting them while I play with the little guys! Who could ask for more?

Deb...palacsinta...with apricot or raspberry jam? I love those little pancakes...I learned from my Hungarian mother-in-law...all those wonderful pastries!

Pam

11:54 PM  
Blogger CrystalGB said...

My family goes to my Mom's for Mother's Day. We have lunch and celebrate all the Moms. :)

5:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I too had difficulty having a baby and have one amazing son to show for it. I used to take my Mom out shopping for Mothers Day. Since she passed, my son has picked up the tradition and will actually take me shopping for the day if that is what I want to do. He may be as alpha as his dad, but for this one day, he does this for his Mom.

KathyLynn
"Cruelty is a mystery, and a waste of pain." --Annie Dillard

8:53 AM  
Blogger Glee said...

My favorite Mother's Day memory is not one which celebrates my own motherhood but when my youngest brother and I found a lovely climbing rose plant for my mother. I hope she was a thrilled as we were! My younger son always makes sure I have flowers delivered to me on Mother's day -- that makes me smile, indeed. Happy Mother's Day to all.

9:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My mom passed in 2005. This year is a little better, each year is. Since she died in April, it was crazy; I went to buy her a card and turned into a messy crying chick at the WalMart. Not so brilliant..but it was what I wanted to do. Weird way to mourn.

We are a practical family, and Mom asked that instead of flowers, could I give her plants for her garden. So for about 15 years, we would go out on Memorial Day weekend and buy annuals together. She would usually plant them, except the last year it was too much because of her health. So I did it that year. But the tradition is a great memory.

My sister has two little girls that give me my Motherly boost. They are the sweetest.

When we were little and at home, I remember going out to McDonalds...I think they had just started doing breakfast then. When I got a little bigger my sister and I made the breakfast for mom.
Smiling,
SusanB

10:18 AM  
Blogger Maureen said...

That is a great picture. Isn't it interesting that women never look at the camera when they're holding their baby? My husband usually makes french toast and pork roll on Mother's Day while the kids sit around. Maybe this will be the year that they make breakfast. I hope everyone has a wonderful day on Sunday.

12:59 PM  
Blogger Dr. Christine said...

Happiest of Mother's Day to everyone who mothers!

1:03 PM  
Anonymous Susan said...

That is a beautiful picture and touching story. For Mother's Day we do whatever mom wants to do.

1:27 PM  
Blogger Steve, Mae & Nic said...

Wow. Your attempt to get pregnant sounds just like mine. I had several tests, different treatments, the hubby was tested and we were just about to start fertility drugs when I decided - Forget it - we are ok with the two of us. The next month, I was also pregnant. I trully believe I was just so obsessed that my mind needed a break & then nature could take over. My husband (also Steve) was so excited. We just hugged & hugged then went out to dinner to celebrate. I even got a dozen roses when our baby boy was born. Your son's name isn't Nicholas is it? Ours was born at the downtown Seattle Virginia Mason.

Mae

1:29 PM  
Blogger Brandy said...

No Mother's Day Traditions here. I wish there were. I'm lucky of my Hubs remembers to give me a card. However, he remembred ONCE, when our first child was born a few weeks before Mothers Day. He bought me a Mother and Child cameo of blue agate and I have worn it every day for the past 13 years.

2:42 PM  
Anonymous Sam G said...

I'm trying to start the 'we buy mom LOTS of plants and help her plant them' mother's day tradition...

So far, I've gotten very happy to pick out/spend the $$$...not so happy to grub around in the dirt and plant the things

Sam

7:28 PM  
Blogger susan andersen said...

Yep, Sam, I'm with you. Love the plants. The planting. . .not so much.

Brandy, gotta give the man credit--he made his one time count!

Mae, sounds like a twinsie story to me! Christopher was born in a Seattle hospital that's no longer in business. But I was working for couple of dentists in an office that was connected to Virginia Mason at the time, if that counts. :)

Thanks Dr. Christine and Susan! And Maureen, I think it's because the babies are soooo much more interesting than the camera--though I LOVE looking back at the pics. They bring back so many memories.

Susan B, my sympathy on your mother's passing. The first holidays are always the worst--they get a little easier after that. Our first Thanksgiving after my dad died, the entire extended family drove down to my aunt's in California just to spend it a little differently because doing the usual was too hard. But what a great tradition you've established in her name!

Glee, isn't it great when you find the perfect gift?!

7:41 AM  
Blogger susan andersen said...

KathyLynn: Awwwww. They can be such guys...then they can be so sweet it just breaks your heart, can't they?

Maura, hope your son can call, too. The soulmate was in Fort Benning for about 6 months. That was a lifetime ago, but I bet things haven't changed much.

Pam, it's that old nature/nurture thing. We have several kids in our family who were adopted--and like your kids, they're OURS. He/she who raises them is a parent, whether they gave birth to them or no. Hope your M's day is lovely.

Darla, sounds like every day is mother's day for your mom!

Annnnnd..... I'm sorry I can't respond personally to the rest of you. I'm out of time and out the door. Thanks so much for all the wonderful posts!! ~Susan

7:57 AM  
Anonymous Angharad said...

Lovely story - thanks so much! Growing up in Ireland we celebrated Mothering Sunday which is calculated based on Easter and Lent. I send flowers and a card and call every year. Also, my mother generally visits me in the US every May so she gets the benefit of Mother's Day twice a year and deserves every bit of that and more.

4:02 PM  
Blogger Lisa F. said...

We're so busy with the kids activities, we usually try to find a night with no plans and take my mom out to eat at a nice restaurant. Sometimes it's the week before or the week after. She lives about 5 minutes from us, and we usually see each other 3-4 times a week and talk every day.

2:04 PM  
Blogger pwbaby said...

I love my mom. We have mommy weekend once a month when my dad works nights. We hang out like we did when I was still living at home.

My mom was my very fisrt friend and is still my best friend.

Happy Mothers day!

8:01 AM  
OpenID jkreyn0510 said...

We don't really have a firm tradition for Mother's Day. Just like our relationships continuously evolve (we have 5 generations living within a 15 mile radius of each other) so do our annual celebrations.

One such evolution came nine years ago. Mother's Day (and my birthday) came on the same day that I was to be released from the hospital to take my own son home. Having become a mom myself, I felt a new respect for the sentiment of the day. I also felt a new respect for my mother. With the joy and the love that I have for my son, I also felt an overwhelming sense of responisibility and a little bit of fear. I called my mother from the hospital at 2:00 in the morning and apologized for any and every infraction I could remember during my childhood. I cried and laughed and apologized...and even confessed to few things I didn't think she knew about. Then she admitted that she knew a whole lot more than I thought she knew, but let a few things slide. We talked for two hours, sharing a new bond as fellow mothers for the first time. After we finished our conversation, she called HER mother and did the same. Each year since then, we try to call each other as soon as we wake up on Mother's Day (even though my house is only 100 yards from my grandmother's house and 150 yards from my mother's house) just to say hi and remember that great conversation nine years ago.

8:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

For Mother's day at my house, my daughters 10 & 7 let it be "Mom's Choice" for whatever we're doing. I get one day to choose what I want to eat (and we go out to get it!) and I get to control the remote on the living room TV (the biggest one with the digital cable box).

Those are serious sacrifices for my DDs.

When my mom is in town she joins us, and she and I take turns choosing the food and the shows.

Happy Mother's day to All!

Marcia in OK

1:26 PM  
Blogger Erin said...

those strawberry waffles sound absolutely delish! i looooove strawberries! i moved out of the house earlier this year, so now my mom is much more "you should come over! have food! you don't eat enough!" which is a refreshing change from before, hehe. So this mother's day, i've offered her my entire weekend, where i agreed to do whatever she wants to do.

11:24 PM  
Blogger Ranurgis said...

I have wonderful memories of eating Belgian waffles with strawberries and cream at Expo 67 in Montreal. That's where I grew to love them on my lunch break from work there. I just wish they were more available since I am the world's worst cook.

4:56 PM  
Blogger Michele L. said...

My Mother's Day tradition always starts with a kiss on my mom's cheek and a simple, "I love you mom." I personally feel just telling your mom how much you love her means the most.

We always start out the day with all of us going to church together. You should see mom's face light up! I always take her to whatever restaurant she wants to go to for lunch. I always try to find a really unique card too. She is now 83 and is every bit as special as she was when I was young kid! I love you mom!

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO EVERYONE!

Hugs,
Michele L.

7:09 PM  

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