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    Tuesday, September 16, 2008

    Elizabeth G: FEAR



    I don’t usually write about serious subjects when I blog here at RWQ. I pretty much stick to books, music, and movies, along with the occasional interview with a guest author or even a recipe. You know, fairly frivolous stuff meant to amuse or entertain.

    But it hasn’t been a frivolous kind of week in the USA when we’ve faced devastating storms along one of our coastlines. Once again Mother Nature has reminded us that there are some things over which we have no control: Weather being at the top of that list.

    Most of us live with the possibility of some kind of dangerous weather. For my friends on the West Coast it’s earthquakes. For my family in California and Arizona it can also include flash floods, mud slides and forest fires. In my part of the country it’s tornadoes, thunderstorms, blizzards, ice storms, and flooding. Our family doesn’t obsess over the weather, but we are aware of it. We keep bottled water in our basement, along with a few emergency supplies and a first aid kit.

    In the wake of Hurricane Ike and the devastation, I’m going to tell you a story about my little brush with FEAR. It was a few years ago. My husband and I decided to go out for a late dinner on a Saturday night. (After all, I’d been writing right up until 8:00 p.m. and it was time to relax.) For whatever reason we didn’t check the Weather Channel before we left. The last prediction was cloudy with a few rain showers. The restaurant was on the other side of town, which meant taking the interstate that skirts our city.

    We enjoyed a leisurely dinner and then headed home. It wasn’t long before we realized the few rain showers were actually a downpour. In fact, a proverbial deluge. We even had to pull off the road several times because we couldn’t see more than a foot in front of us. We debated whether to take city streets (notorious for flooding) or the interstate. We decided on the latter.

    It seemed like we’d made the right choice until traffic slowed to a crawl. There were red taillights ahead of us as far as we could see. Otherwise, the night was as dark and ominous as I ever recall. When we reached an underpass we realized we were approaching a dip in the six-lane highway and it was flooded.

    I’m sure we’ve all seen and read about cars getting swept away in only a few feet of water. That crossed our minds as we inched forward. But there was a concrete divide, so we couldn’t turn around. We couldn’t go back. We could only drive straight ahead.

    I thought of that night again as I watched the news this past weekend and knew in some very small way I could relate to how those thousands and millions of people were feeling as the storm barreled down on them.

    I’m not sure I have a point to this blog. Certainly we’ve all been sending our thoughts and prayers and hopes to those in harm’s way. And hopefully sharing whatever assistance we can give to them.

    I don’t want to ever live my life in fear. But I still vividly remember the night we drove through the flood.

    Blessings all,
    EG

    18 Comments:

    Blogger Stella said...

    EG: How very fearsome. Regardless of where our personal disaster falls on the "awful" scale, that feeling is unforgettable.

    The folks living (and sadly sometimes dying) in the current madness in the South have been through hell. I have a friend in Louisiana who tells me she's numb now--it's all running together.

    I recall two incidences when I felt all control had been snatched from me. The first was just north of Portland Oregon when rain started to fall late at night while we were driving back to Washington. Within minutes there was a thick layer of black ice on the roas. Traffic surrounded us and we were all people in serious trouble. Just stopping might or might not help given that vehicles with their engines turned off were sliding sideways into other vehicles. I saw a man get out of his car, have his feet literally go airborne so that he landed, head-first on the ice. I still tremble at the thought.

    Then, of course, there is the earthquake which we know is always a spectre here. I didn't grow up in the US and never felt anything like a quake before I came here. Now there's helplessness. You can't trust the ground beneath you to stay where you thought it was. You take a step and feel as if you're trying to step on water. That's when you don't get thrown somewhere you had no intention of going.

    I admit that when I think of earthquakes I feel a bit sick, but I don't live my life thinking about these things.

    Perhaps fear is important because it's the great equalizer. Not one of us is immune to fear and we can reach out to each other with reassurance when times are really hard.

    Stella

    9:15 PM  
    Blogger DFender said...

    EG,

    I'm sorry that you hadta experience that sickening fear feeling. I don't ever remember being afraid of anything in the weather-realm... for myself.

    My 21-year old daughter lives in the West Palm Beach area of Florida. Lotsa fear for her during hurricane season.

    The bright side? American's are ever-resilient! We all re-build and go on. It's a gift :-)

    3:33 AM  
    Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Yes, fear related to natural disasters is bad but I think most of us are more afraid of bad things happening to those we love. When we come out on the other side of the problem and everyone is safe we can take a deep breath and purpose never to take the loved one for granted, to spend what time that remains (and we never know how much or little that may be) saying and doing the loving things we need to say and do. One of the really difficult things about a sudden death, like one caused by a disaster or a heart attack, is that we may not get to say goodbye or speak forgiveness to one who has hurt us or been hurt by us. That leads to regrets and "if onlys". We try not live in fear, but we also try to keep a short account of debts owed. KathyK

    7:11 AM  
    Anonymous Anonymous said...

    When I was pregnant (over 35 years ago) with my daughter, we lost everything to a tornado. It ended up being the single most powerful moment in our lives as a married couple by galvanizing us and moving us forward from couplehood to a "family".
    I was once driving in Savannah, GA, when it started to rain. Literally, within less than a minute, my car was surrounded by water up to the door handles. By taking a turn, I made it to higher ground and didn't stall out.
    I now live in a volcanic/earthquake area. I have decided that ALL good places to live have SOMETHING dangerous about living there, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Because we could live safely, but we choose to live well instead.
    I was watching the coverage of Ike and worrying about the people who live there-such wonderful, colorful, strong people-and a powerful thought came to me. Those people are wonderful, colorful, strong people because they choose to live there, at the edge of the world, where the natural processes of Life are most apparent. Hurricanes stir up nutrients and oxygenate the oceans, tear down and rebuild beaches and dunes, and give the ecosystem a boost just before winter sets in. It's a brutal and beautiful process. While I understand this process, I still feel deeply for those who have lost so much to these storms. Would I move back to hurricane country? In a heartbeat! It seems I find most peace and joy in parts of the world where nature has a heavy hand. Do I live in fear of an eruption, earthquake/tsunami? Nah, I don't have time; I'm having too much fun. Am I prepared? You bet!

    My prayers and love go to all those recovering from Ike and (still) Katrina.

    Lynne Thomas

    8:06 AM  
    Anonymous Garnigal said...

    The gravel road I grew up on was very badly designed. It went down into the river flats about a quarter mile from our house, and flooded every spring.

    For about two weeks, we had to make a decision every time we wanted to go to town - is it low enough to drive through without flooding the engine, or do we take the long way around?

    Sometimes (usually with Dad) we got lucky and slowly and carefully picked our way through the high water. Sometimes (with Mom or my Grandma) we'd stutter and stall half way through, leaving us to wade back to the neighbours to call home for a tractor.

    They've built the road up now, but I still remember those days with a thrill of excitement, a shiver of fear.

    9:14 AM  
    Blogger susan andersen said...

    Wonderful blog, EG--very thought provoking. I like what Lynne had to say, that we become strong by choosing to stay and face whatever adversity may come our way.

    I've been lucky so far. As a native Seattleite I've lived through several earthquakes, but the worst damage we've sustained thus far has been to our fireplace/chimney. May that continue to be the case. And as Kathy said, may our families remain healthy and happy.

    10:36 AM  
    Blogger Jayne Ann Krentz said...

    Scary blog, EG. I think it all comes down to feeling out of control. But we humans seem oddly designed to keep on truckin', regardless.

    And maybe that's one of the reasons we read fiction. It helps us deal with fear in a thousand different ways.

    12:05 PM  
    Anonymous Nancy R said...

    As a resident of a coastal area and an insurance agent I am frenquently preoccupied with the weather. I Know that modern forecasting saves lives but sometimes it seems to me all that extra warning also gives us more time to dread what may come.

    4:08 PM  
    Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

    Stella said: Perhaps fear is important because it's the great equalizer. Not one of us is immune to fear and we can reach out to each other with reassurance when times are really hard.

    Bravo, Stella! Well said! This is what our loved ones---friends and family---do for each of us. You made a great point in your post.
    ~EG

    4:35 PM  
    Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

    Deb/dfender: We are a resilient people and we do rebuild!

    As I writer, I take the memory of that fear and use it when I write fiction---always with a happy ending, of course!
    ~EG

    4:38 PM  
    Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

    KathyK said: I think most of us are more afraid of bad things happening to those we love.

    I agree 100% with you, Kathy. I've been there numerous times and for whatever reason I become very calm and still. Maybe because I know others need for me to be that way. (I can always fall apart later.)

    Thanks for the thoughtful comments.
    ~EG

    4:42 PM  
    Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

    Lynne Thomas, yours is such a beautifully written post. Thought provoking. Observant. Joyous. I was riveted by the idea that the tornado was a powerful and galvanizing moment in your lives. Thank you for sharing your story!
    ~EG

    4:48 PM  
    Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

    garnigal, your memories of a flooded road sound a little happier than mine. A good reminder for us all. :-)
    ~EG

    6:21 PM  
    Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

    I totally agree with your comments, Susan! Fear can be a teacher and help us to learn to face it head-on! Hence, wisdom...if we're open to it.

    btw, I experienced my first earthquake this year. We don't get many tremors here in the Midwest.
    ~EG

    6:25 PM  
    Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

    Jayne said: And maybe that's one of the reasons we read fiction. It helps us deal with fear in a thousand different ways.

    You hit the nail on the head, Jayne, as you so often do. It is all about control and learning to deal with fear!
    ~EG

    6:28 PM  
    Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

    nancy r: Yes, we all walk that fine line between needing to know and experiencing unnecessary stress!

    Thanks all for your thought-provoking comments. There's a lot of wisdom here at RWQ.
    ~EG

    6:30 PM  
    Anonymous kris b said...

    I live in a tornado state but I dont let myself fear them mostly I guess because I have never been personally affected by one. however I can see devastation by them and have a healthy respect for mother nature she can be viscous! but I figure I can die in a storm or when I go to bed sigh.. one way or anothe some day its gonna happen so I try not to fear the things i have no control over before they get here.
    I have seen floods but have been very lucky in my life that nothing has ever happened to me in a catastrphic way, I am very thankful but would like to think that I would survive and move on and start over if I had too. but then too you never will know unless it happens. I can tell you the thing I would miss most would be my computer my memories and my books ;-) most of which can be replaced as long as I dont miss any family members I think I could deal with it.
    I have rambled long enough I have been thinking about this since yesterday, thankyou elizabeth for a very thought provoking post.

    3:46 AM  
    Blogger Elizabeth Guest said...

    Thank you, everyone, for sharing your thoughts with all of us here at RWQ.
    ~EG

    4:37 PM  

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